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Re: Girl help

Postby console on Mon Oct 01, 2012 2:25 am

OK, I have to have my bit here.
Having been in a long term relationship for 16 years, when that ended I went dating crazy.
I actually dated something like 70 women over two years. (NO BS).
And came to the conclusion, that you cant make a woman love you, she has to want you for you.

Strange but True. So as Shakespeare said "To thine self, be true."

For me I was never good at meeting women in social situations.
I'd always freeze up and not have "the right words". It was only after my internet dating episode,
I realised you dont need to have catch phrases or other BS, just be the best version of yourself.

So if you can't meet women in your social circle, try internet dating,
as it removes the initial barriers to getting yourself in front of a woman.

Simple but works.

The site that I used was www.rsvp.com.au
Australian based so find a local version for your country/city.
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Re: Girl help

Postby Ramshi on Mon Oct 01, 2012 2:44 am

whatd you do that made her end it
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Re: Girl help

Postby Darth_Wayne on Mon Oct 01, 2012 4:17 pm

SpaceJam wrote:Man, whoever said "be yourself" has to have been quite the charismatic bro.....

What sucks is that im not even the guy who cheats, abuses, lies, etc....so how do I make women swoon over how much of a nice guy I am?

I wear jeans and a white T-shirt nearly every day. I dunno I think it reflects who I am as a simple guy, bit it just isnt getting the job done


Stop being a nice guy and start being a prick.
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Re: Girl help

Postby § Vail § on Tue Oct 02, 2012 1:58 pm

Magyk wrote:
Caesar wrote:Im worried about my generation.


Interestingly enough, I was thinking this exact thought by the time I got to the end of your post. :|


Darth_Wayne wrote:Stop being a nice guy and start being a prick.

^^^^^^^
Seriously. Nice guys finish last.
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Re: Girl help

Postby Ramshi on Tue Oct 02, 2012 6:36 pm

§ Vail § wrote:Seriously. Nice guys finish last.


I actually heard a speech about that a few weeks ago at school.
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Re: Girl help

Postby Sqrl2k on Wed Oct 03, 2012 6:30 pm

When i was in highschool my parents hired a motivational speaker to tell us kids about making something of our lives. I remember him breaking our coffee table and saying If you stuck to weed and didn't do anything with your life you would be "Living in a van down by the river."
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Re: Girl help

Postby Magyk on Wed Oct 03, 2012 7:38 pm

Sqrl2k wrote:When i was in highschool my parents hired a motivational speaker to tell us kids about making something of our lives. I remember him breaking our coffee table and saying If you stuck to weed and didn't do anything with your life you would be "Living in a van down by the river."


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Re: Girl help

Postby piipe on Wed Oct 03, 2012 7:43 pm

how i miss this xDDD hahahaahah
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Re: Girl help

Postby Ramshi on Wed Oct 03, 2012 10:10 pm

Sqrl2k wrote:I remember him breaking our coffee table


Wait what?
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Re: Girl help

Postby MajorMajor on Fri Oct 05, 2012 1:57 pm

1. Don't spend your time here or playing JKA or on some other internet thing. You'll never meet any women.

2. Just be yourself is good advice if we are talking about women in general. If we are talking about a specific type of woman then this can be very bad advice because they are looking for someone who is not you. The problem is you cannot be other than yourself for an extended period of time or it will make you feel like complete crap. It is fighting your nature and you just won't like yourself. So you can't do it and have a long term relationship.

3. Your looks do NOT matter. You can have a face that hit every branch on the way down, be a fat bastard, or a bean pole and still get laid. (NOTE: Some of the ugliest people I've ever known have the most attractive girlfriends. Its because looks don't matter very much if you have the right chemistry.)

That said, fitness can make a big difference in who you attract and how many people you attract. It has a little to do with looks but much more to do with everyone wanting a healthy mate. A good rule of thumb is if you want someone fit then be fit yourself. Not only will you look and feel good you'll have some interests that you can share with your girlfriend. Similar interests attract.

4. Your hygeine does matter. Look clean and well kept. Don't stink. But for the love of all that is holy NO COLOGNE.

5. Find someone you can share interests with. If you have nothing in common, nothing the other person likes to do with you, or you like to do with them, then your relationship is going to be very short.

6. Women like to know you care about and are interested in them. It doesn't have to be big things. Just bringing a small gift for them on a random day is a good way to let them know you care. For anniversaries, again it doesn't have to be big but it does have to be meaningful. Something sappy like you had coke on your first date so you got some for the anniversary. Make a little necklace out of the bottle caps or something. Just make sure she actually liked it the first time.

There are things you can do day to day to let women know you care. These are often much more important. Helping them move crap. Taking out the trash. Doing the dishes. Basically, doing anything so that they don't have to. This lets them know you care. Or that you are a complete idiot who they can get to do whatever they want. Whatever, it still makes them like you.
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