OK, I have to have my bit here.
Having been in a long term relationship for 16 years, when that ended I went dating crazy.
I actually dated something like 70 women over two years. (NO BS).
And came to the conclusion, that you cant make a woman love you, she has to want you for you.
Strange but True. So as Shakespeare said "To thine self, be true."
For me I was never good at meeting women in social situations.
I'd always freeze up and not have "the right words". It was only after my internet dating episode,
I realised you dont need to have catch phrases or other BS, just be the best version of yourself.
So if you can't meet women in your social circle, try internet dating,
as it removes the initial barriers to getting yourself in front of a woman.
Simple but works.
The site that I used was www.rsvp.com.au
Australian based so find a local version for your country/city.